Day 35

Follow your heart or listen to family....

Sean — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Jennifer,

Nothing could be worse for you right now. First there is nothing more deceiving in this world than your own heart. So DON'T FOLLOW IT. You need to learn to LEAD IT!!!!! If you are not familiar with that, then I suggest you read the appendix (all of it) in the back of the dare. You really need to read all of it.

Listening to others. Well this could work both ways. But you need to seek Christ in each decision. And trust Him 100%. That is what this journey is about. He will never steer you wrong, and He is NEVER late.

When you hid your facebook. He got upset, which means that he still loves you. He is still jealous. If not he would not care. So, if he wants the divorce then, tell him it is not his business.

Writing the letter. I think was a good think. Yes he is going to get mad. That is called conviction. God convicted him for his wrongs.

During your journey Christ will work on him. But you need to realize that this is a journey with you and Christ. Not you and your husband. Listen to each and every dare, and what Christ is teaching you. Christ MUST come first, and until that happens He will find ways to humble you.

Day 35 - maybe some improvement?

Sean — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 05:00:00 GMT

What other way could we be humble? Could we be more Christ-like?

Non Christians don't see things the same way, they cannot understand. It is like forgiveness. Where we forgive they want revenge.

The Holy Spirit works in us in so many ways and yes at times it is hard to understand some things. Pray for understanding and wisdom. The more you grow the more you will understand blessings from problems.

And when you have complete trust in Him you will see how awesome it is, that no matter what the problem is, you leave it at His feet and move on, with no worries. As a Christian worry is His problem not yours.

2nd Time Day 35

Sean — Thu, 03 Jun 2010 05:00:00 GMT

I am sure it did. But the bottom line is, IT DID...

And it is your actions, your testimony that will be the changing point in people around you.

Being accountable for my marriage...

Leslie Holmes — Sun, 23 May 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Hey Linda, it's been a few days, how's it going?

Day 35: Monday

Stan — Fri, 21 May 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Day 35. Nothing much happened . My wife has been working on her graduation videos for our daughter and editing senior pictures. Everything seemed to be going alright. She was having some back and shoulder aches so I offered to massage her back and she accepted. We watched a little bit of TV then went to bed. As usual I prayed for my wife, myself and our marriage. As for the Dare, we have been going to counseling for a little over a month now. I don't know what ours counselors religious views are, but I do know that when I explained to her my journey with God, and how I was doing the "Love Dare" she said to keep doing what I'm doing. In the beginning she is the one that suggested that we didn't just run out there and sign papers. She suggested that we see her on a individual basis and when certain things seem to cross she would bring us back together. I myself have recently set an appointment for me with Pastor Lynn who is one of marriage counselors at my church. I will see him Wednesday.

Day 35

Sean — Wed, 21 Apr 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Don't misunderstand. Asking is not the interference... Leaving things around for her to see is...

You are doing fine.

Day 35 - Wiki

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Day 35

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Love is Accountable

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