http://www.lovedarestories.com/journals/b/bebe72s_journal/default.aspxen-USTelligent Evolution 5.0 SP1 HOTFIX (Build: 40807.8881)http://www.lovedarestories.com/journals/b/bebe72s_journal/archive/2010/02/07/feeling-lost-amp-desperate.aspxMon, 08 Feb 2010 04:24:18 GMT0d90fb76-2118-4378-9ca3-da2f6e729b36:12587bebe720<p>I&#39;m feeling lost and desperate. My husband told me 6 days ago that he still loved me, I am the best thing that has ever happened to him, and that I am a wonderful wife and mother...but, he is confused and thinks that we need to get divorced. We are seperated...but, he still calls or texts me daily - only niceties, though. We are going to counseling...individually...only after 4 days of begging him to at least try to save our marriage did he finally agree. But he seems to think that going to counseling is the only action needed right now...that we do not need to get into any kind of &quot;serious discussions.&quot; I&#39;m completely confused...there are so many mixed signals. He asked me to leave - that he needed &quot;a few days&quot; to himself...but, he still calls me - and stops to talk when he sees me in town. He acts as if everything is normal...but, everything is NOT normal!! My heart seems to be broken even further everytime I see or speak with him...but, I cannot tell him to stop calling out of fear that he may shut down even further. I just don&#39;t know what to do. I plan on getting The Love Dare...along with a copy for him. I can only hope and pray that our marriage is worth his time and effort to follow the dares set forth within the book. </p><div style="clear:both;"></div><img src="http://www.lovedarestories.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=12587" width="1" height="1">divorcefirst timeindifference