I started the Love Dare 11 days ago and I find myself having a lot more patience with my wife than ever before. I am going to a marriage counselor today with my wife and I am going to be totally honest with myself. I believe this is something that my wife needs. She has asked me on several occasions to go to a counselor, but I was a selfish, prideful man who thought that everything was fine. We have gone to counselors in the past and it generally ends with one of us trying and the other with hurt feelings. This time my goal is to go and not need to be right or prove her wrong, I am going to save our marriage. The patience thing is toughest for me, but after the first day it has gotten easier. I still find myself not trusting her and in those moments I have to pray in my heart and lead it to forgiveness.