Although I can't say I have an addiction, I know in my heart that I tend to focus so much attention on our children that I neglect my husband's need for attention.  I seem to get so caught up in what the kids need that I fail to see that he needs me as well.  This hurts our relationship as he feels like he is worth less to me.  He needs to be first in this area.  I do not mean that I will neglect my kids, but I need to schedule time with just the two of us.  I don't think we have been out as a couple in at least 6 months and that is not right.  I informed my husband tonight that we were going to schedule a sitter and go out for the night.  he was so excited that I almost cried.  To see him smile about time for just the two of us made me realize how much I have taken away from him. Lord, let me remember that my spouse needs me and he needs to feel loved and appreciated by me.  Help me to remember that to be one, we need to have time to share and be with each other by ourselves.  He needs me to be able to focus on him and not all the other trapping that are going on around us.