I'm kind of afraid to start. The walls that I have built up are built of low expectations from him, so I don't get hurt. What if I just expect more, and get more resentful? And then I have to face the reality that this marraige may not be the best thing for me. It is usually so much easier to...

I'm so worried about today's challenge. I can't imagine trying to find only 3 things that cause her to be uncomfortable or irritated with me. I know I couldn't handle knowing more than that at this point. It would be overwhelming. She will be gracious, I'm sure. So I called her and...