Where do I start? I have been happily married for the last 7 years to my soul mate, my best friend and person that I was convinced would be with me forever. We have known each other for 15 years and have 4 wonderful children. In the past few years I have worked on anger issues, non-violent, just yelling...

I'm kind of afraid to start. The walls that I have built up are built of low expectations from him, so I don't get hurt. What if I just expect more, and get more resentful? And then I have to face the reality that this marraige may not be the best thing for me. It is usually so much easier to...