Day 1 was on Sunday the 7th.  This day was pretty easy. Normally it is not that easy for me but on Sundays it is because Sunday mornings we have our own personal time to prepare for the day (shower, personal scripture study and personal pondering time) than we spend 3 hours at church we are together but are not talking. Than we come home and had family over for dinner and some tv. Than finally we had some alone time but nothing happened so it was easy to keep any negative thoughts and words to myself. 

 

 

I hope all days are this easy but I know that is just wishful thinking.  Most days I do say hurtful things to my husband. I know it isn't right but it is the hardest thing I know I will have to overcome in these 40 days because I snap ALOT and  that is when I say the most hurtful things. So luckily today was easy so it gives me hope for tomorrow.